so it sounds unanimous... stay within your target... you're better off that way... which is kinda true and realistic. why hope for the Reach when it's clearly not even minutely within your reach. if you're not good enough for the person, it's better off you end the wishful thinking. but the question is... do you settle with people like your stalkers? hehe... cuz you know they'd treat you right. but then again, they're your stalkers. ick.