.never been kissed.
is it hard to believe that someone like me could have the NBK syndrome? haha... i tell you... it's quite hard keeping these virgin lips all to myself. hahaha.... actually, no it's not... i'm lying. am i ashamed of being an NBK? perhaps... but i think it would only make it that much more special with my first *muah.* don't you think? i'm 22 yrs old, female, and single in the big apple. what are the odds you'll run into a fellow NBK patient? quite slim. but i think NBK has grown into something quite dangerous. it is now a fear. fear of losing NBK, fear of being a really bad BK, fear of the unknown. but perhaps i'm putting too much weight on this... a kiss is just a kiss, and a horse is just a horse right? it is to my knowledge that some BKs don't even like it. a certain relative of mine hates it. she thinks it's gross, and just an exchange of fluids... haha... and here's another question... do guys like BKs or NBKs? or would they like NBKs as long as they have animal instincts in them? or would guys like NBKs just so that the girl doesn't know they're really bad? INTERESTING!
to all NBKs out there... if you need further reference... I recommend an article written by a fellow NBK friend of mine... Kissing for Dummies: Kissing Perspectives
KISSING FROM A GIRL’S PERSPECTIVE
You may think that as a girl, your role in the kiss is passive. This is absolutely untrue. As the girl, you are the one with the upper hand and you dictate if the guy can kiss you and when he should stop. When the guy wants to kiss you, the only way he knows if he should pursue is by reading your body language and eyes. If you do not want to kiss the guy, you should avoid eye contact and keep your distance away from him.
If you do want to kiss the guy, you should try to make eye contact with him and when your eyes meet, smile and move closer to him. At this point, it is up to the guy to do his part. If the guy doesn’t show a desire to move closer, he either doesn’t want to kiss you or he is too shy. In either case, you should probably give up because you do not want to be too aggressive. However, if the guy knows what he is doing, he will start moving closer to you and bring his head closer to yours. When your lips touch, put your arms around his neck and close your eyes. Unless you feel uncomfortable with what the guy is doing, let him take over. Remember that you are the one being served so let him do the work. In addition, if you like what he is doing, show him that you are satisfied. You can just as well show to the guy that you do not like what he is doing. You should either push him away or just slowly back away. But, if everything is okay, just let him determine the length of the kiss.
Always remember that you are the main focus of his attention and he wants to please you. This gives you control of the kiss.
KISSING FROM A GUY’S PERSPECTIVE
The most important thing about kissing is eye contact. Both of your eyes have to meet and when they do, you will know the time is right to proceed. First, you slowly move your head towards her face. If she is shorter, you should angle your head movement downwards. If she’s the same height, then just inch forward slowly. If she’s taller, then you should perform the following sitting down. When both of your lips touch, you slowly put your hands around her waist and most likely she will rest her arms on your shoulders and around your neck. If she does not, that will be a sign that you should pull back because she probably does not want to continue. However, if she does brings her arms up, then continue by pressing your lips gently against hers. Make sure you do not press your lips so hard that pain would be inflicted upon her. The key to successful kissing is a slow pace and a gentle touch. Since the girl you are kissing most likely does not want to be hurt, you do not want to hurt her.
Ending the kiss requires a great deal of timing. Both of you cannot kiss forever as they do in those Big Red commercials. The kiss must come to an end and as the guy, you must terminate the kiss. It is better to end earlier than too late, so when you feel that you are running out of breath, you should definitely stop. Or if you feel that you have been kissing her for a long time and you’re wondering what you should do next. The answer is to slowly pull away and let go.
Keep in mind that you should definitely enjoy the experience and make it enjoyable for the girl. Congratulations, you are now ready for your first kiss!
AJMrPowers : they say you should practice on a drinking fountain
JYL99: hahahaha
JYL99: drinking fountain?
AJMrPowers: u know kind of lap the water
AJMrPowers: =]
is it hard to believe that someone like me could have the NBK syndrome? haha... i tell you... it's quite hard keeping these virgin lips all to myself. hahaha.... actually, no it's not... i'm lying. am i ashamed of being an NBK? perhaps... but i think it would only make it that much more special with my first *muah.* don't you think? i'm 22 yrs old, female, and single in the big apple. what are the odds you'll run into a fellow NBK patient? quite slim. but i think NBK has grown into something quite dangerous. it is now a fear. fear of losing NBK, fear of being a really bad BK, fear of the unknown. but perhaps i'm putting too much weight on this... a kiss is just a kiss, and a horse is just a horse right? it is to my knowledge that some BKs don't even like it. a certain relative of mine hates it. she thinks it's gross, and just an exchange of fluids... haha... and here's another question... do guys like BKs or NBKs? or would they like NBKs as long as they have animal instincts in them? or would guys like NBKs just so that the girl doesn't know they're really bad? INTERESTING!
to all NBKs out there... if you need further reference... I recommend an article written by a fellow NBK friend of mine... Kissing for Dummies: Kissing Perspectives
KISSING FROM A GIRL’S PERSPECTIVE
You may think that as a girl, your role in the kiss is passive. This is absolutely untrue. As the girl, you are the one with the upper hand and you dictate if the guy can kiss you and when he should stop. When the guy wants to kiss you, the only way he knows if he should pursue is by reading your body language and eyes. If you do not want to kiss the guy, you should avoid eye contact and keep your distance away from him.
If you do want to kiss the guy, you should try to make eye contact with him and when your eyes meet, smile and move closer to him. At this point, it is up to the guy to do his part. If the guy doesn’t show a desire to move closer, he either doesn’t want to kiss you or he is too shy. In either case, you should probably give up because you do not want to be too aggressive. However, if the guy knows what he is doing, he will start moving closer to you and bring his head closer to yours. When your lips touch, put your arms around his neck and close your eyes. Unless you feel uncomfortable with what the guy is doing, let him take over. Remember that you are the one being served so let him do the work. In addition, if you like what he is doing, show him that you are satisfied. You can just as well show to the guy that you do not like what he is doing. You should either push him away or just slowly back away. But, if everything is okay, just let him determine the length of the kiss.
Always remember that you are the main focus of his attention and he wants to please you. This gives you control of the kiss.
KISSING FROM A GUY’S PERSPECTIVE
The most important thing about kissing is eye contact. Both of your eyes have to meet and when they do, you will know the time is right to proceed. First, you slowly move your head towards her face. If she is shorter, you should angle your head movement downwards. If she’s the same height, then just inch forward slowly. If she’s taller, then you should perform the following sitting down. When both of your lips touch, you slowly put your hands around her waist and most likely she will rest her arms on your shoulders and around your neck. If she does not, that will be a sign that you should pull back because she probably does not want to continue. However, if she does brings her arms up, then continue by pressing your lips gently against hers. Make sure you do not press your lips so hard that pain would be inflicted upon her. The key to successful kissing is a slow pace and a gentle touch. Since the girl you are kissing most likely does not want to be hurt, you do not want to hurt her.
Ending the kiss requires a great deal of timing. Both of you cannot kiss forever as they do in those Big Red commercials. The kiss must come to an end and as the guy, you must terminate the kiss. It is better to end earlier than too late, so when you feel that you are running out of breath, you should definitely stop. Or if you feel that you have been kissing her for a long time and you’re wondering what you should do next. The answer is to slowly pull away and let go.
Keep in mind that you should definitely enjoy the experience and make it enjoyable for the girl. Congratulations, you are now ready for your first kiss!
AJMrPowers : they say you should practice on a drinking fountain
JYL99: hahahaha
JYL99: drinking fountain?
AJMrPowers: u know kind of lap the water
AJMrPowers: =]
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